At its simplest it does not take much to sustain life. We simply require food and sleep, nothing more! Okay I know that’s going pretty extreme, but its technically true.
Sustaining life is actually one of the things most of us take for granted, we do it automatically without realising it.
So what then drives us?
Hope? Hope for Happiness?
Most of us are seeking happiness in life. We all have in our heads this vision of the future, a time of our lives where we have no worries, no concerns or desires! We dream of owning that House, or that Car maybe even traveling and finally going on that trip we have always wanted to do!
Are you looking forward to that one time in life where you will be totally happy?! I hate to break it to you, but time is fleeting… how long will that moment in time last?
Question!
My question to you right now is, whats stopping you from achieving happiness now? What is holding you back from all those things you desire? I can hear your answers now… my job, my family, my need for money to live! All of these are totally valid points.
Statistics from 2008 claimed, ‘If you earn more than R5000 a month you are living in the top 5% of the country!’ Its a pretty scary statistic. Consider the other 95%… what are they living on?
Here is the kicker! This is it! This is Life! You’re living it right now… yes things may look up in the future but life started happening the minute you were born. We have to break free of the mind set that happiness is something you find down the road through money, marriage or kids. Those do not guarantee happiness, at their simplest they are just steps in life.
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The expectation is often greater than the reward!
I love that statement, so often the expectation of a holiday overseas out weighs the actual trip. This statement gives a new viewpoint of seeking happiness now, are you simply feeling unhappy because you’re still waiting for happiness to happen?! How about rather looking at it from the viewpoint that it is GOING to happen, create an expectation of happiness. This is it! This is Life! Seeking happiness now in the small moments of life is not hard! Just look around you!
What is it that you desire?! Are they material goods? Will material goods bring you the happiness you are actually seeking? Is that Aston Martin really gonna change your life? Its just a car for getting from A to B! Chances are it will just become another item on your insurance list and that’s just going to bump up your premiums.
Am I advocating an anti-materialistic viewpoint? Not at all… I cannot wait to buy a new digital camera, but I am not putting pressure on it to bring me happiness. I am expecting it to take photographs of the happiness that already exists in life.


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