You’ve all read those stories in books or online, where the story is written from the girls perspective. The line in question here is, ‘he looked across the room and our eyes met…’
Now firstly… ladies you’ve all read these… but how many times has it happened to you? If it hasn’t, would you like something like this to happen to you?
The reason I ask is when does this happen and when does it cross ‘that’ line to the point where a guy looking at a girl across the room just becomes ‘pervy’? Guys are visual beings and so for us its a hard habit to break… in the same breathe at bars/clubs whats the reason girls dress up? To look good, did I hear you say? *cough* and who for?
Anyway getting slightly off topic here, what I am talking about is the eye contact the look that lingers! Across a bar, sure it happens… I know because I’ve done it! Its a flipping bold thing to do, especially in this day and age where eye contact barely ever happens! Its not in our nature. Try walking through a shopping center and make eye contact with someone longer than a brief flash… most of the time people will very quickly look away! Now translate that to the bar/club situation… everyone is automatically programmed by societal pressures to look away. Why? Respect? To avoid being labeled as that ‘perv’ who keeps checking me out? Lack of Confidence?
Everyone looks away, even when we don’t want to… and often even more so when you’re actually attracted to the person you just glanced at!
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